Many single people crush on some one and they would really love to be in a purposeful relationship with their crushes. 

Usually, Crush – a strong but temporary feeling of liking someone – may be on someone way older or unavailable. And many other times, it is the strong feeling you have on someone withing reach. In that case, you could move it past the crush level and make it a real lasting relationship.

You never can tell it may also lead to marriage.

Here are five ways to turn a crush into real relationship

Love yourself

Yes. As simple as step number 1 may sound, it is the first move in attracting others to notice you. No, we are not taling about the greedy self love here. What we are saying is that you must understand your worth. Your self-esteem must be intact such that you will not misinterpret feedback from yourself and and your crush.

 

Make friends with the friends of your crush

Humans tend to follow the crowd. Many times the bandwagon effect is obvious in the day to day decisions we make and that is why when someone tries to do something differently they are first referred to as weird before becoming a hero (if it works out). So if you get your crush’s friends to like you, it is almost certain that the band wagon effect will get your crush to follow the lead.

 

Dress for the move

You don’t have to wear the most expensive designers. No. What you need to do is to keep it simple but for the occasion. Rule number 1, your dress must be neat at all times whenever you are going to be around your crush. Keep your hair neat, tidy and smelling nice. Cristopher Walken as  Frank Abagnale Sr in in the movie “Catch me if you can” told his son, acted by Leonerdo Dicaprio words that you should keep in mind in this case: You know why the Yankees always win, Frank? Because the opponents are busy checking out the stripes on their jersey…

Think about it, dressing matters, put a touch of red.

Make friends with them

Ask them about themselves. Find out what their favourite type of music, food/drink, programme, movie/film, books etc. They might even tell you about some little individual funny things. Smile, but don’t laugh like a moron.

Tell them how you feel

You cant be doing all the moves without clearly articulating your feelings. So take your time, find the most appropriate time, and say whats on your mind.