Nollywood actress, Toyin Abraham, has come to the defence of her friend and colleague in the movie industry, Nkechi Blessing, after a blog exposed the latter’s sexual escapades with some men, including actor Adeniyi Johnson.

WuzupNigeria reports that a blog had alleged that Nkechi Blessing is a ‘runs girl’, adding that the 30-year-old had sex with Mustapha Ismaila, aka Mompha; Johnson, who used to be Abraham’s husband, and Asiwaju Jagaban.

However, days after the allegations, Abraham came to the defence of her friend, Blessing, saying “critics have become absurd just because people now do it for fun”.

In a lengthy Instagram post, Abraham who reportedly was still married to Adeniyi Johnson when Nkechi Blessing had an affair with him, advised that negative reports should be ignored till they fade away.

She wrote,

“We can’t always control the people or circumstances in our lives, but we can always change our reactions towards them. Even at your best, someone will always have something negative to say.

Critics have become absurd just because people now do it for fun. And most of them try to expose what’s wrong about you because they can’t handle what’s right about you. Forgetting everybody is fighting their own unique war. Just focus on who you are and don’t entertain any negativity directed at you by others.

People have a right to their opinion and you have a right to ignore it. Accept criticism if you think it’s reasonable, as it takes both sun and rain for a flower to grow, however, do not get distracted by the critics of people who don’t know how to cook but tells you your food needs salt. Refuse to open your mind to other people’s trash.

When people throw you stones, it’s because you’re loaded with fruits. So, throw them your fruits so the seeds of yourself may inspire them to change their ways. The less you respond to negative people, the more peaceful your life will become.

IGNORE NEGATIVITIES TILL THEY FADE AWAY!”