Making a man fall head over heels for you is one of the best feelings a single lady could ever hope for.
Love is a beautiful thing when you share it with someone who adores you and loves everything about you.
Naturally, you want him to be just as crazy about you as you are with him but note that you also have a huge part to play. While there are general guidelines that are applicable to all relationships, however, there are very simple details that are overlooked by ladies who want their men to be crazy in love.
Here are ten tips to help you make him think, dream and be completely crazy about you.
Sure, this is a shallow, superficial way to go through life, but looking good pays off. If you maintain a healthy exercise routine, your body will be in great shape all the time, your clothes will fit, and you’ll be healthy and energetic.
You know that even a simple interview requires you to groom, so why wouldn’t you do the same for the man of your dreams?
Sometimes your opinions about how to spend the evening will diverge. He promised you that you’ll go out, but he had a long day at work and he ended up very tired. Instead of pouting about it, show a little understanding as this is a surefire way to answer the question of how to make him crazy about you.
If you see he’s tired, propose to spend a cosy evening indoors, and cuddle while watching a movie.
INVEST IN YOURSELF
Looking good takes time and money, but it ends up making you feel great about yourself and confident in your appearance.
Why not invest in yourself? This is the best gift you can do for both of you.
Many women think that sacrificing themselves is the best thing to do, but you’ll end up being a tired, unhappy, frustrated, not-so-great-looking, boring… hey, you’ll end up being a lot of things and none of them good.
GET SOME SEXY UNDERWEAR
Nothing is simpler than the gesture of putting on your bra and panties and that can also be the best answer to how to make him crazy about you. Instead of wearing plain, boring cotton, get some lace or silk lingerie that is guaranteed to spice up your life and make you feel like a Victoria’s Secret beauty queen underneath your clothes.
If you avoid it because you think it’s uncomfortable, well, think again! You can choose a soft lace body or carefully inspect the lingerie and only buy pieces without tight elastic pieces or steel reinforcements.
DON’T BE PASSIVE – AGGRESSIVE
Lack of communication is the death of any relationship. So is being passive-aggressive about your needs and wants.
Letting him guess what you want and then being upset when he doesn’t is likely to lead you anywhere. If you want something, speak openly about it. Passive-aggressive behaviour is the exact opposite of finding how to make him crazy about you.
TURN ON THE HEAT
Since you are wearing that sexy lingerie, now it’s time to show it. Don’t hesitate to walk around the house wearing just your silk and lace.
If you lack sex drive, see a doctor and make lifestyle changes. Don’t let your relationship be a sexless one. The lack of physical intimacy is a leading cause for separation.
The less action you get, the more likely you are to also have communication problems and slowly turn into strangers. Sure, a few spicy sex positions will help, but they’re not required to have a good sex life.
BE INTERESTING AND INDEPENDENT
It feels like you’re in a fairy tale, and you want to spend the rest of your life together, each and every second. That will cut you away from your friends who are your social safety net in case of a breakup.
The less time you spend separated, the more you know exactly what happens to your significant other, which means you’ll be quickly left without any new conversation topics. Not to mention that makes you look suffocating to a man who wants to maintain some of his personality intact.
MAINTAIN YOUR BEAUTY ROUTINE
Wash, brush, peel off dead skin, apply cream on your face and body, put on some perfume and a little makeup. Taking care of your skin maintains that lovely fresh complexion we all want.
Your routine is a sacred time interval dedicated to yourself and can make wonders about how you feel with yourself and how confident you are.
BE THE SAME GIRL HE FELL IN LOVE WITH
After one year, it’s more comfortable to sit around the house in large sweatpants, eat ice cream from a bucket and complain about your day.
But that’s not the sexiest image ever, is it? We’re all like that from time to time, but how would you feel if he transformed from the gorgeous hunk you first met into a slob. When that happens to white goods, we return them to the seller, don’t we?
Kindness is an enshrouding quality that improves all your relationships. Before judging anyone, he included, take a little time and put yourself in the other person’s shoes.
Caring for animals and caring for people are irresistible qualities that work to show your big heart. Nothing is more lovable than love itself.
Don’t threaten people with sexual abuse, El-Rufai’s wife tells son
The first wife of Governor Nasir el-Rufai of Kaduna State, Hadiza el-Rufai, has criticised her son, Bello, over his tweets in which he threatened to have a sex orgy with someone’s mother.
Hadiza said on Twitter that sexual abuse should never be used as ammunition in public discourse.
Mrs. el-Rufai had come under attack on Sunday for seeming to take sides with her son who had threatened to gang-rape someone’s mother during a political debate.
Hadiza, who retraced her steps on Monday, tweeted:
“When I posted the tweet below, I assumed it was just the usual Twitter gbas-gbos (banter). Having read the tweets chronologically, I have had conversations with Bello. Never ever should sexual abuse be employed as ammunition in public/ private exchanges, no matter the provocation.”
Bello has been trending on Twitter for ethnic slurs and threats of sexual abuse.
Trouble started after Bello took to Twitter to attack United States President, Donald Trump, over the handling of the COVID-19 pandemic.
“There is nothing as radioactive as an incompetent leader during a time of crisis. The United States of America is a case in point. A few states in Nigeria too.”
However, a Twitter user named Consigliere with the handle @oewonah (now @thanos_zer), said Bello should rather focus on Nigeria’s President, Maj.Gen Muhammadu Buhari (retd.)
He insisted that the American President was miles ahead of Buhari and even Bello’s father, el-Rufai, in terms of quality leadership.
“He (Bello) can’t call Buhari out for his ineptitude yet he’s calling Trump names? Did he vote Trump?”
El-Rufai’s son, however, decided to rain expletives on the man who disagreed with him and also insulted his ethnicity.
“Tell your mother I’m passing her to my friends tonight. No Igbo sounds please! Tueh.
Not done, the younger el-Rufai sent a private message to Consligiere, saying it was obvious that he was attacking Buhari because he is Igbo.
Bello further stated that Buhari was completing the Second Niger Bridge in the South-East, a feat which former President Goodluck Jonathan could not attain despite being supported by Igbo.
He also insulted the leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra, Nnamdi Kanu.
“Your mother is the main whore of the South-East. I can’t reply you publicly. F**k Kanu and take a picture of the Second Niger Bridge, thanks to Buhari.
“My mentions are mine. If a Sunday bastard makes up lies and drags my father, his mother will be games. If he doesn’t want it, he shouldn’t mention me. The crowd has never phased (sic) me.
“Truly your mother’s son. Does she still earn by earning 2,019 naira per suck on Azikwe Street, Aba LGA? Tell her to wear mask and gloves while doing it due to this pandemic.”
The person whose tweets Bello was directed at, expressed shock at the insults, explaining that he wasn’t even Igbo.
The moment your husband is about to cum during s*x is when to start praying fervently – Counsellor tells women [Video]
A sex therapist and marriage counsellor, Dorcas Solomon, has advised married women on what to do when they are making love with their husbands.
Solomon, in one of her teachings on sex and relationship, counseled women to engage in fervent prayer the moment their husband is about to cum during sexual intercourse.
In the footage spotted on social media by WuzupNigeria, she was speaking on “Good Sex in Marriage”.
“When you are having sex with your husband, train yourself to the level where both of you will cum together.
“When the temperature is getting hotter between both of you and he is about to cum, that is when to hold each other and release the blessing, like I use to pray for my husband when he is releasing his sperm inside me.
“I say this is what you’re releasing inside me, right now I release the blessing of God upon your life.”
Solomon said she has been seeing results from practising what she preaches.
“I bet you I’ve been doing it and God has been blessing him.
“There is no time that he makes love with me that I won’t pray for him and it’s working for him,” she said.
She also advised couples to open up to their partners when he or she is “not doing it right” instead of resorting to cheating.
“Nothing stops you from telling your partner if he is not doing it the way you want, communication is key. Tell him/her.
“If you want it discuss it with your partner, don’t be shy about it.
She went on to say consent is very important before husband and wife engage in sexual intercourse.
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My pastor dad sleeps with me before paying my school fees – Nigerian girl tells Police
20-year-old Fortune has narrated to policemen how her pastor father started having sex with her when she was 13 years old, and that he would demand sex before paying her school fees.
Her father, the presiding Pastor of Mount Zion Light House Full Gospel Church, Obio Imo Lane, Uyo, Apostle Williams Okon Bassey, has been arrested by operatives of the Akwa Ibom State Police Command.
The state Police Public Relations Officer, Mr Odiko MacDon, who revealed that six others, including another pastor, were arrested for alleged incest and defilement, told newsmen that Fortune said she got pregnant thrice.
“The victim stated that her father started having sexual intercourse with her at the age of 13. The continuous sexual assault led her to become pregnant on three different occasions and the pregnancies were aborted by her mother.
“She further revealed that the first time her father defiled her was in the church vestry. He threatened to place a curse on her if she dares tell anyone about his escapades. He also demands sex before paying her school fees or catering for her needs.”
The Police Command’s Spokesperson added that:
“On October 31, one Anwanga Essien Udo of 7, Itiam Street, Uyo, aged 33, a Pastor with Restoration Bible Church, was arrested for having unlawful carnal knowledge of his 10-year-old step-daughter(name withheld).
“When she was left alone with him, rather than be a father to her, he opted to turn her to a sex-machine.” The police spokesman warned perpetrators of such acts to desist forthwith or be willing to contend with the full wrath of the law.
He, therefore, urged parents to also make haste in reporting every form of sexual harassment when noticed to the police or other Security Agencies in the state timely, as concealment of these crimes has only led to an increase in violations.
He commended the partnership of FEYREP, the pet project of the wife of the state governor as well as the good people of the state for their continued trust, encouragement and timely information.
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