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Lady slams older Nigerian women, says they have zero empathy for young girls
A lady has expressed her disdain for older Nigerian women over claims that they have no love for young girls and express arrogant opinions when reacting to issues affecting the younger ones.
The lady identified simply as Abeni gave her damning verdict in a series of tweets via her Twitter handle @saba_lee.
She said this category of women are always quick to slut-shame young ladies and have zero empathy whenever negative things happen to a young girl.
“Their opinions is always thrash,” she tweeted.
Abeni wrote:
“I have a deep hatred for older Nigerian women because they are wicked. They have no love for young girls and that’s that on that. If you’re not their typical textbook ‘good girl’ then they want every bad thing to happen to you so they can say ‘I told you so’
“It’s older Nigerian women that will cover rapists. They are the ones that will victim blame and slut-shame. They are just the worst! They have zero empathy and they think that’s the work Jesus sent them. You’re on your own oh.
“Everytime something bad happens to a young Nigerian girl just lean back and observe. Their take, opinions, everything. Always trash.”
Other Twitter users have also shared their experiences to corroborate Abeni’s opinion on older Nigerian women.
A Twitter user said the older women are fond of bullying the younger ones because they feel insecure.
@EniolaHu tweeted:
A teacher in high school used an entire class period to insult me in front of the whole class. She didn’t teach for 45 minutes. She told me that I thought I was prettier than her and that she had better legs than me. I was 13. https://t.co/Eyp1cuaYXN
— beauty. spirit. light. (@EniolaHu) December 12, 2019
Karen Kossy wrote:
They actually fuel everything patriarchy. They have an A in stereotyping young girls. In their opinion, every young girl living is dating a married man, or a slut. They are actually the worst. I don’t hate them, I just put them in their place when I come across any. https://t.co/9VcL6mqDL2
— Karen Kossy (@__thekaren) December 12, 2019
See other reactions:
One once asked me what kind of man would marry me simply because I was putting on a short dress.
I told her “mummy Ile oko ni mo wa ma”
She was then like “eyin iyawo isin yi sha”
“Iyawo omo mi o le mura bayi sha”
I was just pitying her bitterleaf life
Pity was all I felt for her. https://t.co/rgEGevVbnR— Chef Ìbílè (@chefapella) December 12, 2019
This is so spot on. The average older naija woman will die first before taking your side over patriarchy. They always have the worst nuggets of advice to give. I don’t hate them though. I realise they are just victims of their circumstances. https://t.co/h8GYh8rnEZ
— Toyin Fab (@toyinfab) December 12, 2019
This is so spot on. The average older naija woman will die first before taking your side over patriarchy. They always have the worst nuggets of advice to give. I don’t hate them though. I realise they are just victims of their circumstances. https://t.co/h8GYh8rnEZ
— Toyin Fab (@toyinfab) December 12, 2019
There was a day in the market,they were discussing about how a father continuously rapes his 8 years old daughter, you wont believe these woman were blaming the little girl! I was shocked, like how do these people think! https://t.co/9lBPDqKCoc
— ⚡?Rola??? (@Rola_oj) December 12, 2019
Many of them are resentful and jealous of young women. Especially because they followed all the ‘rules’ that were supposed to guarantee a happy marriage/life and they didn’t get it. To see girls breaking those rules and still flourishing sets their blood boiling. https://t.co/bKtxrhCZo8
— Fatimah Temitope Adeiye (@FlawlessMilo) December 12, 2019
Older women in general. There must be a correlation with losing your youth and beauty that just makes them so insufferable https://t.co/3Rwi5OxkpJ
— Water. (@UduakIsBae) December 12, 2019
“You deserve it because you don’t follow instructions”. Lol everything is about control and power and if you don’t relinquish that to them, when bad things will happen to you they will tell you that’s why it’s happening ? https://t.co/ghDeYmbwet
— Water. (@UduakIsBae) December 12, 2019
This is so true. Because they ve been in cages all their lives, they want every young woman to aspire to such.
Nah Boomer, we didn’t inherit our mother’s silence https://t.co/QLYGDD4Oy3
— Emojist???????? (@Ramhiee) December 12, 2019
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