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My father disowned me because I fixed artificial nails, says 23-year-old lady

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A 23-year old lady, simply identified as ChiBurna! @TheNnma, has narrated how her father disowned her days after her 23rd birthday.

The lady who claimed that she had been caged all her life said her father disowned for fixing artificial nails which only cost her N300.

In a lengthy tweet thread, the young lady claimed that her no-nonsense father didn’t wish her a happy birthday but rebuked her for giving herself a threat on her special day.

@TheNnma, also said her father said she should fashion her life after her mother or mummy G.O and ordered her to leave his house by Friday, drop the house keys and delete his numbers off her phone.

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The 23-year-old said she’s not scared of the turn of events or what would become of her, however, she’s not apologizing and vowed never to marry a man like her father.

“I simply got excited about my birthday and did #300 nails and gots disowned. Life is beautiful. Lol. I’ve always said I’ll never marry a man like my father. I’d rather die.

Read her story;

“I turned 23 on Sunday, the 22nd of September. I was happy. 22 was a great year, not because I’d made any money but because I had grown.

My dad is a deacon, a very critical person and the “Commander in chief” of my household.

I didn’t wear trousers as the fattest person in the house till I was in the university and I kept hiding them. He only allowed them when he found out I’d been abused again.

Since service year, I’ve been surviving on my own. (My mum is the most supportive person ever and my best friend, so she helps when she can.) I haven’t received a dime from my father since my service year but i guess, what do I need more than a roof over my head and food for?

If I need lady things so bad, I’d get a husband or as little as, a job. I’m constantly hassled about getting a job because, “you should be taking up some responsibilities as the first child.” but I have NOTHING, asides my degree and some skills i learnt and couldn’t use…

because “if you need a new phone, get a boyfriend/husband. Chewing gum boys cannot help you.” How do I even go about getting a job, the whole Google apps on my phone crashed and can’t work because OS too low. How did I get the phone sef, long story.

But weeks before my 23rd birthday, I was happy and even did a whole countdown because despite all my problems, I was healing, the numbness was gone, I was at peace, things were working (in bits but I was/am grateful).

I started making wigs, I could now open my mouth and talk to people (still hard but we trying), I lost some weight, my mum managed to help me start my PGD. For the first time in YEARS, I felt alive and I was going to celebrate my 23rd in my little way.

I made three wigs the week before and my clients paid the Friday before my birthday, I took out my savings and my tithe and went to get my manicure and pedicure done for Sunday. I fucking deserved a treat!

So I have naturally long nails and the few times I’ve done my nails, out of fear, I get them done in the natural shape of my nails and paint them nude…nothing catchy but this time, I went all out, Instagram style and painted them blue. I didn’t think it would be a problem.

Sunday came and I danced danced my heart out in church and my dad noticed my nails but ko ko mi, I’m breathing, I am happy.

Got home and my secondary school friends took me out for sharwama and drinks, I felt too special for the first time in so long and I got home at 11pm (never happened but I’d called beforehand to let my parents know I was in the area and would get home late).

I got home, there was light and as I was about to go to my room, my dad called me back and asked me to show him my nails. Showed him and he asked why I got the two hands done, why I couldn’t emulate my mum or mummy G.O and insinuated I didn’t have a husband just because.

I simply told him I wasn’t looking to be anybody else and it was just for my birthday and it would be off soon because I cannot even work with it. He flared up and told me if it wasn’t all off by Friday, I should be ready to leave his house and…

I jokingly reminded him I was travelling during the weekend so I’d have to keep the nails for a little longer than Friday and went to sleep.

He refused to let me make/serve his breakfast for the first time in more than ten years since Monday morning and I honestly didn’t read much to it or give It any thought. Just felt like, he wanted his wife doing that for now (I’ve enjoyed the extra sleep tbh).

This morning tho, I got my ass up went to help in the kitchen because It already seemed too fishy and served his food. After eating, he called me and asked to see my fingers and I showed him (save my thumbs, the nails are still intact).

The shouting fit began (i stood looking throughout) and he said I’m not his daughter anymore and I should pack my things by tomorrow, Friday, drop my keys, delete his numbers off my phone and leave his house.

He seemed serious and If he is, LOL, I’m leaving. I am not apologizing either. He didn’t wish me a happy birthday, told people in church to come ask me where the cake was, we didn’t even cook the usual Sunday rice and I try to make myself happy, you’re angry.

I’m not even a bad child. Everything I’ve done in my life was to please my parents and it never seemed enough. I lost myself, I struggled and I couldn’t say anything because I had to show a good example. I do something one time for myself and I’m now Jezebel…okay.

I don’t even know where I’ll go or what I’ll do but I’m not begging so I’ll pack my bags and watch it all unfold.

I’m just sorry for my mum because anything that happens from now on would be blamed on her.

But you people should help reason this thing, I am not pregnant o, I didn’t bring man to the house, I didn’t steal money, I did not curse my elders…

I simply got excited about my birthday and did #300 nails and gots disowned. Life is beautiful. Lol. I’ve always said I’ll never marry a man like my father. I’d rather die.

I’m not even scared of the turn of events or what would become of me. I’m just planless. I do not have friends! I have been caged all my life. I only  

 

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Cash transfer: FG disburses N349.5m to beneficiaries in Kaduna

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The Federal Government has concluded the disbursement of N349.5 million to 34,946 poor and vulnerable households in Kaduna State.

The Head of Cash Transfer Unit in the State, Hajiya Hauwa Abdulrazaq, made this known in an interview with the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) in Kaduna on Sunday.

Abdulrazaq explained that the disbursement was under the federal government’s Conditional Cash Transfer, a Households Uplifting Programme targeting poorest of the poor households in the country.

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She said that the beneficiaries, drawn from nine Local Government Areas (LGAs) of the state received N10,000 each, being payment for the months of May and June at N5,000 per month.

She identified the benefitting LGAs as Kajuru, Birnin Gwari, Kauru, Lere, Sanga, Kachia, Kubau, Ikara and Chikun.

She said that 4,470 poor and vulnerable households benefited in Kajuru; 8,032 in Birnin Gwari; 1,963 in Kauru; 1,406 in Sanga, while 4,380 benefited in Lere.

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She added that a total of 2,021 poor and vulnerable households benefited in Kachia; 5,478 in Ikara; 2,784 in Chikun, and 4,412 in Kubau.

“We began the disbursement on July 1 and ended the exercise on July 10.

“The households uplifting programme is one of the national social investment programmes which implementation began in September 2016,” she said.

NAN recalls that the programme began in 2017 in Kaduna state with about 10,000 beneficiaries, but expanded to 22,380 in April 2020.

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A total of 12,566 new beneficiaries were added in May, which amounted to the current 34,956 beneficiaries in the state.

The state government had also commenced the process of capturing poor and vulnerable households into the social register in the remaining 14 LGAs, from which beneficiaries of the cash transfer would be extracted.

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Lady flaunts groceries bought for N2000 at popular Lagos store ( see reactions)

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A Nigerian lady has taken to social media to flaunt the supplies she bought at a popular Lagos supermarket and it has got the attention of Social media users.
The lady identified as @sisbisi_ on Twitter took to the microblogging platform to share photos of groceries and other supplies she got at SPAR supermarket for a token of N2000.
While sharing photos of her items, she simply tweeted: “Now now 2K don finish. 🥺“
In reaction to her tweet, twitter users have called on her to borrow them the handgun she used in getting all she bought at such a meager rate. The store’s official handle also quoted the tweet saying:
What SPAR location did you spend 2k and get all these? 😑
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Man beats up woman at ATM stand (Video)

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A video of a man who beats up a lady  ATM stand has been making rounds.  The argument all seem to have started with the same reason all ATM quarrel happens which is who got to the ATM stand in the first.

The man is seen in the video of threatening to beat her if she touches the machine and it wasn’t an empty threat as he did when she tried to use it.

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Another young girl and an older woman came to her rescue with the help of a man who seems to be the security man at the point.

The man-made to harass the second girl who sought protection with the older woman while they both condemn his action of beating the first girl.

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Nigerians have since been reacting to the video most of them condemning the man’s action while some people expressed why they wouldn’t be quick to jump to a conclusion as what the girl did to deserve the beating from the man is not absolutely clear.

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