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NIGERIANS FUME! I trust my husband but won’t allow him bath my daughter, says TVC presenter, Morayo
TVC presenter, Morayo Afolabi-Brown, has said she absolutely trusts her husband but will not allow him to bath her daughter because of the frequent case of child molestation.
The TVC presenter said she won’t take the chances because “whether we like it or not, there is something flying in the air these days that is encouraging imbalance and immoralities”.
The presenter made this assertion during the morning show “Your View” on Wednesday.
” I absolutely trust my husband but I won’t take chances and have him bathe my daughter, because whether we like it or not, there is something flying in the air these days that is encouraging imbalance and immoralities. ~ @moakabash #YourViewTVC
“I actually trust my husband but I’m just being careful because people that have experienced this kind of situation, also trusted their husbands and yet, it happened, Morayo said.
A co-presenter, Akashat-Zibiri Nyma, disagreed with her statement saying “as much as we are trying to identify the evils out there, let us not endanger our families by living in constant suspicion of our husband and the possible threats they pose to their daughters.
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She further opined that If you trust him, don’t see him, as a potential threat.
However, many Nigerians on Twitter have expressed divergent views over her bold assertions.
Some accused her of coming on live TV to succinctly call her husband a paedophile.
Others supported her by saying she is right by entertaining fears over her husband because of the blood cuddling cases of pervert fathers sexual assaulting their children from a tender age.
Some also argued that her insecurities may bridge a gap between her husband and their daughter adding that its unhealthy for the family.
One Capo Di Tutti Capi?@bobbykrystal said “There have been cases of parents abusing their own bloodline.
“But having such thoughts, and acting it out to create boundaries btw father & daughter can be (1) that mother has got own insecurities and/or (2) she is acting cautiously on the realities of the father’s tendencies!”
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Some apparently angry Twitterati used derogatory words to describe her controversial statement and said that she should not also bath her son because he is the opposite sex.
See some comments:
Some people’s paranoia has become Werey Alaso…
Isokuso lenu Werey…
She said something is flying around these days as if we are just hearing of paedophiles.
She just insulted her husband in front of millions of people.— OLUMIDE (@therealshizo) December 5, 2018
I bathe for my daughter, I even did this morning and I have been doing it every morning. When she was younger, I changed her diapers, the first thing she does every time I come home, she runs towards me to kiss me! Madam, some opinions are better left unspoken!
— Oluyemi Olusegun (@OluyemiOlusegu4) December 5, 2018
Meeeen! I am absolutely gobsmacked and gutted. MORAYO!!!! Sometimes, it just pays to shut up than trying to be morally right. Saying this about your husband is derogatory, defamatory and worthiness. You are not what your name implies. Sure even your dad would be mad now. Damn
— BABS NERO ?? ?? (@haiamkophee) December 5, 2018
It probably shows what is hidden in her home.
— DG ?? (@unxido5555) December 5, 2018
This is serious, i bathe my daughter most of the time. I believe there is more to the issue, if she doesn’t trust her husband. You need prayers and counselling.
— C’est Babatunde Ibidunni (@Ibibabs) December 5, 2018
There’s always negativity in the mind of women only when you think negative, negative comes in human form. Women don’t marry a womanizer o
— Victor? (@chidexonwuson) December 5, 2018
Same here. You just nailed it. What’s the big deal with Husbands bathing their daughters. We shouldn’t assume or judge all bcos of the actions of a few. smh.
— Oluwadamilola Ayinde (@Oluwaday) December 5, 2018
There have been cases of parents abusing their own bloodline.
But having such thoughts, and acting it out to create boundaries btw father & daughter can be (1) that mother has got own insecurities and/or (2) she is acting cautiously on the realities of the father’s tendencies!— Capo Di Tutti Capi? (@bobbykrystal) December 5, 2018
My daughter? Lolz. I thought its parenting? will she bath the son?
— Olufemi Adebayo (@blessed_04) December 5, 2018
There is this hatred for men on social media that will eventually get into our society, how is it an issue for a man to bathe his daughter? There is no love or trust in that marriage.
— Abiola SAP™ (@sapnon) December 5, 2018
I will respect her right to air her views but this is pretty much an expression of her deep insecurities about herself and the husband.
Not a bad idea to consult a therapist to unravel more and have them treated.
This is wrong from many angles!
— Obaro™ (@0bar0) December 5, 2018
This is arrant nonsense! I bath and clothe my 2 children(boy and girl) every sch days b4 going to work! It’s my own part of the family morning chores! My daughter is 4years, I will stop when she’s old enough to bath herself or I can afford another nanny! It’s my responsibility pic.twitter.com/Nxds8fzKl7
— Dike Kalu (@dike115) December 5, 2018
I am a father, I bathe my 2 year old daughter, change her dipper, get her dressed when her mother is out or too busy to handle it, and there is nothing flying in the air! Why should anything fly in the air, Morayo?
— Afolabi Ibrahim (@Afolabimibrahim) December 5, 2018
I bathe my daughter, I think it’s only a mad man that would molest a child, not even his own daughter. I would be deeply hurt and sad if my wife made this claim in public domain.
— ayokunle Ajayi (@kunleeko) December 5, 2018
I bathe my daughter, I think it’s only a mad man that would molest a child, not even his own daughter. I would be deeply hurt and sad if my wife made this claim in public domain.
— ayokunle Ajayi (@kunleeko) December 5, 2018
“My daughter” because it isn’t your husband’s daughter too. This is absolute madness and anyone who condones this needs to get their head checked. If I was the husband best believe I am filing for divorce rn. People like this are evil and would retard your progress in this life.
— The Cheshire Cat (@agyasika) December 5, 2018
My Daughter stays with me almost every Saturday. I bath her and wash her up when she poo on her diaper. If this idea you have about not trusting your husband isn’t madness. I don’t know what to call it.
You people need to calm down abeg.
— Meghan’s Dad ??? (@FemiOmotee) December 5, 2018
If this is how or what my wife think of me…… We are better off without each other…..
— Abiola Sina-Inakoju (@bimsymyrock) December 5, 2018
this is a bomber. You missed the mark completely. Self control and discipline is not attained by restriction but by freedom. I am sure your husband can’t be alone with your maid too.Also make sure there are no women on his path. Not all men cheat. best believe that
— chukz (@chukz_d_sage) December 5, 2018
She actually doesn’t trust her husband. I can’t imagine my wife saying this. 80% of the times, I’m the one that bathes my daughter. Wth is going on these days?
— Deji Adeyanju Kaka (@daddykdz) December 5, 2018
Madam, you can’t trust your husband and be careful at the same time. It doesn’t mix. Look up the meaning of the word ‘trust’ in the Dictionary before you make statements like this again.
— Mercy Attih (@AttihMercy) December 5, 2018
The moment I saw that ‘but’ I drew my conclusion. It invalidates the first statement, if he has such tendencies, deal with it.
— Femmy Babs (@femmybabs) December 5, 2018
That’s another mistake some Women make! They always think the child belongs to them alone! Madam the major raw product of that baby is the sperm of your husband so don’t ever think you love your daughter more than your husband if you are married anyway ??
— Henry MD (@donpanacio) December 5, 2018
If I was her husband, I would not only be embarrassed, I would be everything in between. But come to think of it, she didn’t need to say it out.
— ayokunle Ajayi (@kunleeko) December 5, 2018
95% of men will never touch their own daughter even if they are nyphomaniac. We should not be injecting dirty ideas into sane minds because of some odd cases.
— ©Jessica For Deji Adeyanju ?? (@WomenVoiceNG) December 5, 2018
Probably trusting her husband as she implemented goes beyond what we know.
For example, I can trust someone to be a thief by sending him somewhere without no instructions to steal but knowing well he would steal and bring me enough goodies. It’s still trust, you know— OMO URE ?? (@Iam__temmy1) December 5, 2018
I trust him based on his words but i dont trust him based on his actions… This is d simplest way i can interpret this
— Toyinbo tunmise (@TTunmise) December 5, 2018
You don’t have sense. You just don’t trust him. Fine, there are fathers who are damned forever, & will abuse their daughters, but not all. My own daughter? I won’t be able to bathe her? My dad bathe all my sisters & never abuse them. So ‘cos of something flying in d air?
— Dr Tony Carter (@audacityofhopeQ) December 5, 2018
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