You will agree with me that relationships need constant nurturing to grow and bloom into what the two parties would never regret getting into in the first place.

A satisfying relationship can also make people feel happy and healthy but remember that life is not a bed of roses.

A healthy relationship requires communication, patience, perseverance, respect, love and plenty of good and healthy habits from both parties.

A healthy relationship in most cases eventually leads to marriage and a lifetime of bliss between the couple.

However, both parties should know that it takes two to tangle. The man and the woman will have to patiently work out their differences and adopt healthy habits to enjoy one another.

So when dating that special someone, avoid these 11 habits that could make a great relationship take a turn for the worse.

1. Fighting in public

It’s always not advisable to argue or fight with your partner in public. The parties involved end up been embarrassed and could also lead to the end of the relationship.

Arguing in public can make everyone around feel awkward, too. Talk it out in private, please.

Love isn’t all good, all the time. Disagreements are bound to happen, and arguments can be a healthy part of a relationship but definitely not in public.

2. Being melodramatic

No relationship is perfect. So don’t create unnecessary drama in every scenario. If someone forgets to do something,  there’s no need for a scene. Take a few breaths and address the problem calmly. Patience in a relationship is the antidote for a lot of problems that might strain the concerned parties.

Sometimes it could be frustrating having to repeat something over and over but always remember that there are other subtler ways that you could drive home your point without hauling insulting words at your partner.

3. Lacking self-confidence

Not feeling confident in a relationship can really do some damage: Low self-esteem is sometimes linked to low sex drive, which could make things less heated in the bedroom. Getting active, setting goals, and even smiling can improve self-confidence.

Endeavour to think before you use some sensitive words with your partner. It is always advised that you also discuss what you like or don’t like with him or her.

Don’t dig up past mistakes and insult him or her with what you shared in confidence.

Don’t forget that an unhealthy relationship can actually cause low-self esteem, so stay clear of someone who makes you feel less than great.

4. Lying

Little white lies can add up and ruin a relationship that should be built on honesty. It is always wise to own up to your mistakes and politely ask for forgiveness.

Lies could stain the trust that your partner has for you. Always remember that you have to tell more lies to cover up a previous one.

If you are dissatisfied with her cooking just patiently say, “sweetie you did a good work but you have to improve in this area.”

5. Constantly comparing

Forget the ex and stop comparing a current partner with a person from the past. This could lead to unrealistic expectations.

Make good use of what you have in your hands and fine-tune your relationship to what will make others envious.

Sometimes your sexual relationship with your ex may be better than what you are currently having, just adopt some of your methods and teach one another.

But it’s always wise to avoid mentioning your ex-sexual prowess.

6. Allowing jealousy to take over

Doubting your partner may be a symptom of a larger problem “relationship insecurity”.

Women who feel insecure in their relationships may be at greater risk for health issues like a weakened immune system.

Some advice for reducing envy, at least temporarily? Stay off Facebook, Instagram, Snap Chat and Twitter for a while.

7. Not talking it out

If something is wrong, the other person probably can’t read your mind.

When a problem comes up, speak up at the right time. One study suggests young couples are less stressed when they talk out their issues than when they keep their feelings bottled up. And don’t forget to say, “I love you.”

Expressing your emotions, either positive or negative can benefit that bond.

8. Forgetting to forgive

People make mistakes, and holding on to grudges may not only hurt a relationship.

Not forgiving could also cause unwanted stress and anxiety. Sympathy may be easier to give if we realize it will benefit our health.

9. Spying

When two people want to make it work, trust is key. Have confidence in your mate and respect their privacy.

Don’t snoop through texts, emails, or bedroom drawers. Don’t secretly obtain your partners’ passwords.

10. Doing everything together

Everyone needs some alone time even devoted couples. Solitude may even enhance relationships, making time together more valuable.

11. Avoid stalking their ex on social media

Don’t stalk your partner’s ex on any social media platform. Once you are done with the relationship, close that chapter and move on.

Don’t be the first to always comment if there is any problem with your ex.  It could also affect your current relationship because the person will also want his pound of flesh.

Exposing and writing anonymous messages on your ex-social media handles would eventually make people even intending candidates think you’re bitter and troublesome.

Source: Greatist