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RELATIONSHIP TIPS! Seven important things you should never do on a first date

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A lot of people pass through several difficulties in securing a good relationship despite the enormous population of people out there looking for a perfect love life.

It is normal for people to get attracted to each other at first sight but the most important thing is how they sustain such attraction; little things unknowingly to us can easily kill such attraction and appear like it never existed.

In starting a new relationship there are important things one needs to look out for otherwise you might be leaving a bad relationship to a worse one hence living a cyclical life unintentionally.

Below are seven things you should never do on a first date:

1. Constantly check your phone: When you go out on a date and either of you gets engrossed with your mobile phone can be very annoying. It shows you are not listening to a word the other person is saying. This is a rude, and disrespectful behaviour. The worst is even when the phone is on the table, right there in between the two of you, like it’s on the date too.

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2. Talk about your ex: Of course, either of you might have experienced one or two bad relationships but that is not a yardstick to make it the subject matter on your first date. Remember that the very essence of the date is to get to know each other and decide if you can be together and start your love life afresh.

3. Swear too much: Swearing can be hilarious in the right context. However, if your entire vocabulary is limited to a combo of bollocks, tits and fucks, it can come across as rude, aggressive and kind of foolish or stupid.

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4. Refuse to pay your way: It is an instant boner killer when your date doesn’t even pretend to make a grab for their wallet when the bill comes. Realistically, splitting the bill or taking it in turns could be a welcomed development.

5. Turn up late: Lateness is something to be avoided especially on a first date. If you know you have somewhere important to be, you should just leave on time in order to get there soon. Being late sends a wrong signal, it presents you like someone who actually values your own time more than someone else’s and it is a bad notion for starters.

6. Constantly check your appearance: Before going out on a first date, one would have done all the necessary things to look presentable and dazzling. It becomes an embarrassment when you seat across the table with your date and keeps checking yourself out in the knife’s reflection. This is an instant turn-off. Taking care of your appearance is one thing, but self-obsession is another, so find the balance.

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7. Offer unwanted life advice: First date is not a pep talk session between two prospective lovers. There are several people out there who will either try to plan your own career for you or patronisingly offer advice for your life in general. To avoid unintentionally pissing off your date, keep your unwanted advice to yourself and discuss more important issues.

SOURCE: Cosmopolitan

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Don’t threaten people with sexual abuse, El-Rufai’s wife tells son

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Kaduna government to enforce the use of face masks

The first wife of Governor Nasir el-Rufai of Kaduna State, Hadiza el-Rufai, has criticised her son, Bello, over his tweets in which he threatened to have a sex orgy with someone’s mother.

Hadiza said on Twitter that sexual abuse should never be used as ammunition in public discourse.

Mrs. el-Rufai had come under attack on Sunday for seeming to take sides with her son who had threatened to gang-rape someone’s mother during a political debate.

Hadiza, who retraced her steps on Monday, tweeted:

“When I posted the tweet below, I assumed it was just the usual Twitter gbas-gbos (banter). Having read the tweets chronologically, I have had conversations with Bello. Never ever should sexual abuse be employed as ammunition in public/ private exchanges, no matter the provocation.”

Bello has been trending on Twitter for ethnic slurs and threats of sexual abuse.

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Trouble started after Bello took to Twitter to attack United States President, Donald Trump, over the handling of the COVID-19 pandemic.

Bello said:

“There is nothing as radioactive as an incompetent leader during a time of crisis. The United States of America is a case in point. A few states in Nigeria too.”

However, a Twitter user named Consigliere with the handle @oewonah (now @thanos_zer), said Bello should rather focus on Nigeria’s President, Maj.Gen Muhammadu Buhari (retd.)

He insisted that the American President was miles ahead of Buhari and even Bello’s father, el-Rufai, in terms of quality leadership.

Consigliere wrote:

“He (Bello) can’t call Buhari out for his ineptitude yet he’s calling Trump names? Did he vote Trump?”

El-Rufai’s son, however, decided to rain expletives on the man who disagreed with him and also insulted his ethnicity.

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He tweeted:

“Tell your mother I’m passing her to my friends tonight. No Igbo sounds please! Tueh.

Not done, the younger el-Rufai sent a private message to Consligiere, saying it was obvious that he was attacking Buhari because he is Igbo.

Bello further stated that Buhari was completing the Second Niger Bridge in the South-East, a feat which former President Goodluck Jonathan could not attain despite being supported by Igbo.

He also insulted the leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra, Nnamdi Kanu.

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He tweeted:

Your mother is the main whore of the South-East. I can’t reply you publicly. F**k Kanu and take a picture of the Second Niger Bridge, thanks to Buhari.

“My mentions are mine. If a Sunday bastard makes up lies and drags my father, his mother will be games. If he doesn’t want it, he shouldn’t mention me. The crowd has never phased (sic) me.

“Truly your mother’s son. Does she still earn by earning 2,019 naira per suck on Azikwe Street, Aba LGA? Tell her to wear mask and gloves while doing it due to this pandemic.”

The person whose tweets Bello was directed at, expressed shock at the insults, explaining that he wasn’t even Igbo.

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The moment your husband is about to cum during s*x is when to start praying fervently – Counsellor tells women [Video]

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A sex therapist and marriage counsellor, Dorcas Solomon, has advised married women on what to do when they are making love with their husbands.

Solomon, in one of her teachings on sex and relationship, counseled women to engage in fervent prayer the moment their husband is about to cum during sexual intercourse.

In the footage spotted on social media by WuzupNigeria, she was speaking on “Good Sex in Marriage”.

She advised:

“When you are having sex with your husband, train yourself to the level where both of you will cum together.

“When the temperature is getting hotter between both of you and he is about to cum, that is when to hold each other and release the blessing, like I use to pray for my husband when he is releasing his sperm inside me.

“I say this is what you’re releasing inside me, right now I release the blessing of God upon your life.”

Solomon said she has been seeing results from practising what she preaches.

“I bet you I’ve been doing it and God has been blessing him.

“There is no time that he makes love with me that I won’t pray for him and it’s working for him,” she said.

She also advised couples to open up to their partners when he or she is “not doing it right” instead of resorting to cheating.

“Nothing stops you from telling your partner if he is not doing it the way you want, communication is key. Tell him/her.

“If you want it discuss it with your partner, don’t be shy about it.

She went on to say consent is very important before husband and wife engage in sexual intercourse.

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My pastor dad sleeps with me before paying my school fees – Nigerian girl tells Police

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20-year-old Fortune has narrated to policemen how her pastor father started having sex with her when she was 13 years old, and that he would demand sex before paying her school fees.

Her father, the presiding Pastor of Mount Zion Light House Full Gospel Church, Obio Imo Lane, Uyo, Apostle Williams Okon Bassey, has been arrested by operatives of the Akwa Ibom State Police Command.

The state Police Public Relations Officer, Mr Odiko MacDon, who revealed that six others, including another pastor, were arrested for alleged incest and defilement, told newsmen that Fortune said she got pregnant thrice.

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He added:

“The victim stated that her father started having sexual intercourse with her at the age of 13. The continuous sexual assault led her to become pregnant on three different occasions and the pregnancies were aborted by her mother.

“She further revealed that the first time her father defiled her was in the church vestry. He threatened to place a curse on her if she dares tell anyone about his escapades. He also demands sex before paying her school fees or catering for her needs.”

The Police Command’s Spokesperson added that:

“On October 31, one Anwanga Essien Udo of 7, Itiam Street, Uyo, aged 33, a Pastor with Restoration Bible Church, was arrested for having unlawful carnal knowledge of his 10-year-old step-daughter(name withheld).

“When she was left alone with him, rather than be a father to her, he opted to turn her to a sex-machine.” The police spokesman warned perpetrators of such acts to desist forthwith or be willing to contend with the full wrath of the law.

He, therefore, urged parents to also make haste in reporting every form of sexual harassment when noticed to the police or other Security Agencies in the state timely, as concealment of these crimes has only led to an increase in violations.

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He commended the partnership of FEYREP, the pet project of the wife of the state governor as well as the good people of the state for their continued trust, encouragement and timely information.

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