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#StopMenAbuse: My wife used to beat me up, man makes public confession

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A  South African man has alleged that his ex-wife, identified as Charisma Hanekam, was a serial abuser who was very possessive and insecure.

The man, identified as Themba Ndala said his ex-wife made it a point of duty to massage him before going to work.

He claimed that his ex-wife would frequently scream, shout and beat him up when he comes back from work

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Themba Ndala made these claims via his Twitter handle and narrated how he endured his toxic relationship for several years before opting out.

He wrote:

“I was in an abusive marriage with Charisma Hanekam. My ex wife was insecure, I couldn’t go out to work without her messaging me every 10 minutes.

When I came home she would scream, shout and beat me up. Many times I told her to stop beating me up but she didn’t #StopMenAbuse.

“Every time I walked away when she got heated up, she suggested I was cheating.”

Ndala who shared screenshots of chats with his ex-wife, however, said he is now in a two-year happy relationship.

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Men have been stereotypically assumed not to open up when they are in an abusive relationship, their silence has been linked to the shame associated with being abused by a woman.

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